Tuesday, January 06, 2009

A Happy Occasion

A little over 2 years ago, we celebrated the New Years Eve wedding of my Sis and Bro-in-Law.

At that time, my Sis immediately changed both her name AND my Niece's last name to that of Bro-in-Law's. (Did you know that anyone can just up and change their name, at any time??? Weird.)

Yet it wasn't really official. Until yesterday. When my Bro-in-Law officially adopted my Niece.

In my Sis's words:

"It was great today. We went into the judges courtroom while he divorced someone then we got invited back to chambers with the adoption specialist. The judge was totally psyched to be doing an adoption; he said that is the nicest thing they do and it doesn't happen too often.

So he made a big deal about talking to [Niece] and asking her questions about what it meant to be adopted (and picture this in [Niece's] shy quiet high pitched voice), "Well it means that I'm going to be part of [Bro-in-Law's] family forever and he is going to be part of mine." The judge signed the paper with a big quill and gave her a certificate that they both signed.

He asked her how we were going to celebrate the rest of the day and she said (in her annoyed pre-teen voice complete with kindergarten stare), "My parents are making me go back to school." (We are going out to supper tonight to celebrate.)

When we were leaving the courthouse I turned to [Bro-in-Law] and kissed him and he turned to [Niece] and kissed her. That was the best part."

The Happy Family


Mags said...

I'm crying happy tears. Your BIL is a good man!

Shasta said...

Your sister and neice are very lucky people to have found such a great man. I was adopted by my aunt at age 7 and it's so amazing to know that there is someone who cares that much, someone who actually chooses to be YOUR parent. It's a wonderful feeling.

Jenni said...

That is wonderful! Congratulations to them!

Anonymous said...

what a wonderful story. Conratulations to all!

Amanda said...


Patois42 said...

Tears in my eyes, and not just because they made the poor kid go back to school.

Unknown said...

That is awesome! I remember how special it was for me when I legally changed my last name to my step-father's last name.

Major Bedhead said...

Oh, that totally made me tear up, but in a good way. What a lovely post.

Putting the FUN in DysFUNctional said...

What a wonderful story! I'm all choked up.

Paula Reece said...

How sweet! It's so nice to see happy endings like this in the world!

Roxane said...

Just stumbled upon your blog and I LOVE IT!

Great posts overall, but this one got me good! We are going through the same tedious process here in California and I can't wait until the day we sit down and sign the papers!

Congrats to the happy family!


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